Dating while distancing?

By IANS | Published: April 28, 2020 01:06 PM2020-04-28T13:06:34+5:302020-04-28T13:20:11+5:30

Take your time There is no time like the present to match with somebody interesting or pick up that long-forgotten conversation.Use this time to really get to know each other- long phone calls, shared activities, the list is endless.Exactly like dating in real life, take your time.There's no time like the present to dial it back and relearn slow dating.

Dating while distancing? | Dating while distancing?

Dating while distancing?

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Take your time

There is no time like the present to match with somebody interesting or pick up that long-forgotten conversation. Life is a little slower than usual these days, so take this time to actually figure out your kind and look for a mental and emotional connection.

If there is one thing the quarantine has done, it is to make time for you to truly get to know somebody and make sure you're compatible before taking it to the next level, virtually!

While virtual dating is fun and exciting, please steer away from setting up any physical dates, for now. Use this time to really get to know each other- long phone calls, shared activities, the list is endless. Please stay inside for your, your match's and everyone's safety.

While the pandemic is our reality and we are tuned to new conversations around it all the time, try going beyond this topic. You are more than the current situation and it's important for your match to know and recognise that. Don't rush it. Exactly like dating in real life, take your time. Text each other and build a rapport before exchanging numbers and hopping onto video calls and virtual dates. There's no time like the present to dial it back and relearn slow dating.

Don't lose your spirit. Technical glitches or awkward silences, especially on your first date, making you lose confidence? Please don't. These slips ups could happen even in person and may not be in your control. These moments have the potential to be fun stories for you to share with each other in the future. So keep your cool, laugh a little and stay patient.

Finally, no 'ghosting', please. You had the first experience of a virtual date with your match but you really don't feel your heart racing or butterflies in your stomach? Be honest with your date and tell them. Either way, you never have to see them again but you might end up gaining respect and a friend.

( With inputs from IANS )

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